Children who sense that others have confidence in them are more inclined to have confidence in themselves, take creative leaps of faith, develop a strong work ethic, and work toward personal achievement.
To that end, here are seven considerations for parents:
- Encourage children to take things step by step. Help them learn to prioritize (what to do first, next, and so on), and how to pace themselves.
- Show appreciation for children’s efforts. Kids who are willing to put forth effort accomplish more.
- Help your children find the relevance in what they do. If a task is meaningful, it will be more motivating.
- Be available to offer guidance as needed as children work to fortify their skill sets, values, and interests.
- Strive for balance. Ensure that kids have ample time for rest, reading, and fun.
- Maintain optimism and an upbeat attitude.
- Demonstrate and reinforce listening, and open communication.
Look After Your Own Needs
Also important for parents—look after your own needs! Self-care is essential if parents are going to be fully present for their children. Your well-being sets the stage for theirs. Therefore, set reasonable expectations for yourself, and be sure to focus on—and model—your own creative and intellectual fulfillment, and your self-confidence, too!
AUTHOR’S NOTE: Adapted from a previous article by Dr. Joanne Foster, published by Best Version Media’s Neighbours Magazines, and distributed across Ontario, Canada.
